You might be nervous about approaching an otaku girl with romantic intentions, regardless of whether you're an otaku or non-otaku guy. Dating a girl who falls under this category isn't any more difficult than dating any other girl, though. All you really need to do is find the girl and appeal to her interests well enough for her to take notice of you.
1. Meeting The Otaku Girl.
Check the stereotypes at the door. The trouble with any label is that it tends to reduce people to nothing more than stereotypes and hollow shells. Before you approach an otaku girl, remind yourself that she is an individual person with her own quirks, beliefs, and personality. Some of her characteristics might scream “typical” otaku, but many won't.
2. Log on
Otaku girls can often be found online in chat rooms, forums, and various social media websites. Moreover, these girls are often comfortable interacting in the digital realm and can appreciate an online meeting just as well as an offline one. Playing online games together is a good idea, isn’t it?
3. Venture into the real world.
Not every otaku girl is glued to her computer monitor, of course. The vast majority have lives in the real world, and if you want a more traditional meeting, your best bet is to track down the otaku girl in her natural habitat. In other words, go someplace related to her interests since she'd be likely to visit there in her free time.For example, try going to a store that has a wide selection of anime or manga. Spend time at an arcade. Try going to an anime convention.
4. Approach her with a good opening line.
Once you find a girl who piques your interest, you need to make a good first impression. You don't necessarily need a flashy, witty pick-up line, though. Striking up an interesting conversation might be more than enough.Discussions about shows, movies, and related media tend to be a good place to start, especially if you see her looking at a similar series in a store. If you don't know enough about her likely interests, you could even start the conversation by confessing your lack of knowledge and asking her to make a recommendation.
5. Get her heart.
An Otaku Girl remains an ordinary girl, who wanted to be loved and be caredcompletely. Do not forget to make a little surprise in a special day likegive a gifts such as action figures or her favorite anime-dolls. Guaranteed she will in love with you!